Marital bliss….. and then life happens.

You fell in love. You vowed to stay committed to one another. Forever. But years go by, the feelings have shifted, or circumstances challenged the relationship, and then you wonder – what happened?

Your first inclination is to complain (and oh I hate the C word!) about your spouse and how he or she needs to change in order to make you feel fulfilled and happy. Number one rule – you can’t change someone else! Actually you can, though……by being the first one to take the initiative, to be intentional, get off the merry-go-round, break the cycle. 

You may be thinking nope, nada, isn’t going to happen. However, hear me out. You landed on this page and this website because you care. You do want a change; you just aren’t sure what the heck that looks like. 

I work with clients individually to discuss and explore how to change in order to get the relationship you need and want. While couples counseling is rewarding for you as a couple, individual therapy for issues in a marriage/relationship can be just as positive because it puts the responsibility on the only one who can make a change and that’s you. 

I have been with my husband for over 30 years and have definitely learned the good, bad and the ugly, and therefore I enjoy bringing what I’ve learned to my clients. I’ve gotten over that stagnant, “are-we-staying-together-or-not” hurdle and it’s so worth it!

If you are struggling in your marriage or committed relationship and are seeking help to make a change, I invite you to contact me.